Simple. Choose a love spellcaster with unquestionable character and a track record of success that is even independently verifiable.
You should absolutely avoid casting love spells on your own. Once you attempt witchcraft, you automatically invite powerful forces from nature. Some of which may cause more harm than good. It is the work of us love spellcasters that understand. And know what deity/force to invite or invoke and for what purpose. It’s always a measured approach. And the nature of the rituals that must be done to invite those forces. That way, everything is done in accordance with spiritual guidelines and there shall be no backfires whatsoever.
Backfires and/or unintended consequences in love spell casting mostly come about due to mistakes made by amateurs, quacks or love spell seekers who choose to do the work themselves instead of working with us professional spell casters.
A love spell is worked with special tools, materials and ingredients that are carefully harvested from the the woods. You obviously lack the art and skill to do this and therefore your attempts will not only backfire but will lead into failure. Let those who know how do it.
More so, a love spell is performed from a spiritual house also known as a temple or shrine. Here, the natural elements and supernatural powers gather or assemble after the necessary rituals to influence the outcome that you a seeker aspire or wish for.
Lastly, before every spell is cast, we do a psychic reading or spiritual consultation to determine the forces that are working for or against the outcome that you look forward to. This stage lays the stage for and guides the approach to take for the spell to be successful. Since you lack the training and experience to do it, let us do it. Just like you trust other professionals to do the things you have limited knowledge about, trust us spellcasters to do love spells so that the result has no blemishes, backfires or failed outcomes. Thay is the key to success in this practice.